Have you ever found yourself holding parts of yourself back because you were afraid of what other people might think? I know I have!
I didn’t want to be laughed at or rejected in some other way. From an early age we’re so deeply conditioned to fit in! We learn how to hide our “flaws” and what makes us different so nobody notices them. The goal is to fit in and be liked by everyone.
What if I were to tell you that we have this all wrong?
What if embracing what makes you unique and different, hanging it out there for the world to see, would help you become more loved and accepted by your right people? What if it would ultimately lead to more success and satisfaction in all areas of your life?
You heard me right! Learning to embrace and amplify the things that make you different is the key to your success! When it comes right down to it, flying your freak flag is all about allowing yourself to be 100% you, in your full freaky glory, and freely sharing your unique gifts and talents with the world. Doing this gives other people permission to do it too.
Flying your freak flag makes you stand out from the crowd and it’s so much easier for the people who are looking for what you have to offer to find you. I’m not just talking about in your business; it applies to your personal life too.
Let’s use my blue and purple hair as an example. My hair attracts a lot of conversation. It lets potential clients know that I am not a mainstream coach; it makes people curious and shows that I have a bit of an edge to me. I’m different and it makes people seek me out and want to engage with me. It affects my personal life the same way. People are attracted to me because I’m different. I’m not afraid to stand out and those are also the qualities of the folks that I like to spend time with. My letting my freak flag fly makes it really easy for the kind of people that I like to spend time with and work with find me.
Letting your freak flag fly doesn’t have to be extreme. It could be something simple like wearing some kind of flower or sparkly jewelry. It doesn’t even really have to be an appearance thing at all. You can give yourself permission to talk about your passion for goldfish and be quirky in that way.
When it comes right down to it, flying your freak flag is about loving yourself and not hiding the parts of you that are different. These are the things that are going to make you extraordinary and will attract your right people and the Kick-Ass Life that you crave.
It’s time to stop hiding and let your freaky self break free. What is one aspect of yourself that you are ready to let the world see?
If you are ready to stop hiding and would like some support as your unfurl your freak flag and step into your brilliance click here to set up a Kick-Ass Consultation. During this 30 minute conversation we will explore how we can work together to bring your brilliance out into the world so that your right people can find you.