How do You Deal with the Obstacles?
(This is the third installment of the How to Create a Kick-Ass Life series)
Here’s a cold hard fact- when you set out to create your Kick-Ass Life, you’re going to have deal with a bunch of obstacles along the way. There’s something about claiming the life that you want to live that attracts all kinds of problems, and issues. I’m not going to pretend that this doesn’t happen.
The question is- How do YOU deal with these obstacles?
I find that how you deal with the obstacles has a lot to do with how you regard them.
It’s Not my Fault!
If you think these problems are caused by something outside of you, and someone else is doing something to hold you back, you probably get mad, or defensive and can easily feel victimized by the situation.
In this case it is easy to feel powerless to change things so you give up or spend your time pushing against the problem, rather than looking for a solution. You blame, complain, and fight.
Sometimes this get’s you somewhere but often times it just makes you feel powerless, exhausted and unsatisfied.
I Can’t Do It!
If you hold the belief that you can’t really have what you want, and you don’t trust yourself to be able to create it, you tend to give up easily as soon as you are faced with challenges or problems.
Deep down inside you don’t think you can do it anyway, and the challenges and problems confirm it.
Then the excuses start to come. You don’t have the time, money, resources, education, and all of those other things that we say to justify why we can’t have something.
I could go on and on about the belief that you can’t have what you want. I could talk about not feeling worthy, deserving or good enough.
It all comes down to the same thing- You don’t believe that you can have what you want so you do not embrace your power to create it.
A New Way to Look at Obstacles
What if all the obstacles that you come up against are really just an indication of the places that you are not in alignment with what you are trying to create? What if they are just information telling you that there is something for you to look at?
Let’s face it; if you were in perfect alignment with your Kick-Ass Life you would already be living it!
Each of us is a very powerful creator.
When you set your mind to something and claim it for yourself the way opens for you to start living it.
BUT, you have to clear out all the old beliefs, perspectives, and ways of being that are not in alignment with this new life in order to be able to walk down that path and start living it.
When you recognize challenges, problems and obstacles for what they are- an indication of the places that you are out of alignment– it gets much easier to deal with them and move on.
Do You Want to Learn How to do This?
This is a new skill set for most people.
I can show you how to do this, and I have lots of tools and resources to share with you that make it so much easier to navigate the obstacles as you create the life that you want to live.
A great place to start is by signing up for the Create Your Kick-Ass Life in 2011 group program that gets underway next week. (Feb. 7th) We will be covering this material in depth during the third module of the course. You will learn how to easily navigate the rough spots and obstacles without feeling stressed out or held back.
Go here to learn more and sign up!