This Sucky BIG Thing Called Judgment

I hear this over and over again…

I feel like I can’t say what I really want to say on Facebook because I’m worried about what my clients, family, friends will think.

Or

Now that I’m opening my own business, I feel I have to change the way I show up so people will want to work with me.  

These statements all lead to the same place. YOU feeling like you can’t be yourself because someone else won’t like it.

The truth is– you’re afraid that you will upset someone or be judged in some way if you let your true nature shine through.

I have news for you-

You’re going to be judged no matter what you do. You will piss people off, offend and delight them all in the same breath. The thing that offends one person will be the very thing that someone else has been dying to hear. Who would you rather talk to?

You have no control over what other people think about you. 

Accepting this will make your life so much happier and your business way more successful.

You are beautiful, amazing and have so much to offer just the way you are. Matter of fact your gifts shine through stronger and brighter when you allow yourself to just BE YOU.

Sure some people won’t like it, but some will LOVE it.

The people who love it are the people you want to be talking to. The thing is they will never be able to find you if you keep hiding out under the belief that you need to reign yourself in.

So- here are a few things to remember:

You can’t control what other people think of you.

You can control how you think of yourself. Stop making yourself wrong by being you. You are fabulous- own and let it shine through.

Stop making other people’s happiness more important than your own. When you don’t express yourself because you’re worried about what others might think, you are denying who you are. That feels crappy. In these moments, you are making someone else happiness more important than your own.

Stop it!! It isn’t your job to make other people happy…….unless you’re a clown or something but that is a whole other story.

What other people think about you is none of your business. Seriously! You have no control over it so stop wasting your time and energy on it.

Say this with me now-

Ok…go on out there, fly your freak flag and be your awesome self!

 

P.S. If finding your voice and speaking your truth is a challenge for you and you want some loving support- check out Unleash Yourself!  This 30 day class will have you confidently speaking your truth and expressing your desires. 

 

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