Something interesting happened last week.
I noticed that I was I was trying too hard to “get it right” and I was feeling the pressure to “make something happen” in my business.
Do you ever feel that way?
I felt like part of this was the funky energy that has been swirling around in the Universe the past few weeks, but I also recognized that I was somehow out of alignment with what I wanted to create.
How did I know this?
Because shit kept showing up that was so not working for me and I was not getting the results that I was looking for.
Being the wise women that I am, I know that I somehow attracted these undesirable results, and it was my job to identify what was out of alignment and shift it.
And that is exactly what I did. In 3 days time I went from feeling pressured and having to make-something-happen, to feeling in the flow and kick-ass
Do you want to know how I did it?
I looked at what was showing up that did not work for me, identified how I was resonating with it, and I re-wrote my story to reflect what I wanted to be experiencing. Within three days everything had shifted and I was once again aligned with everything kick-ass in my life.
The magic of it all is that you can do this too when you feel like you are not getting the results that you are looking for.
Let me break it down for you.
First off, you need to take a step back and take a good look at what is going on.
Whatever you are experiencing is a direct manifestation of the energy that you are embodying. Do your best to get a clear perspective on what exactly is showing up that you are not wanting. This is valuable information and will give you insight into where you are not resonating with what you want and how you can shift it.
For example, one situation that kept showing up was that people said that they wanted to work with me, but they did not have any money.
I asked myself: “How am I resonating with this conversation?”
When I thought about it, I realized that I was holding onto a story that said money was tight and people did not have any to spend on creating their kick-ass dream life right now. I often talked about this “reality” with friends and colleges.
This story was totally out of alignment with what I wanted. Believing this story made me feel like I had to work harder and figure out a way to overcome this obstacle. It made me play a much smaller game than I wanted to play. It did not feel good to me and I felt like I had to DO something to make something happen.
In my kick-ass dream life, I help people who are already committed to going after their kick-ass dream, and they want some help navigating the obstacles. They are in-it-to-win-it and recognize the value of working with me and joyfully pay me for my services.
I needed to re-write my story and step back into the big game I wanted to play.
First , I consciously re-wrote my story to say: Everyday there are thousands of people who are investing money in their kick-ass dream life. Right now, there are hundreds of people who are on the path to living their kick-ass dream life who eagerly await the opportunity to work with me and will joyfully pay me my full fee.
Then I set out to collect evidence that people were spending money on personal growth and happiness. It went something like this:
I frequently spend money on my own personal growth and happiness.
I often meet other women who invest in themselves.
Right now there are thousands of people who invest in themselves every day.
Matter of fact, right now there are many people who would welcome the opportunity to invest their money in my services. There is a history of people doing just that.
(Now I am feeling better! )
I decide to spend some the day looking for evidence of people spending money on their happiness and living their kick-ass dream life.
I noticed the women who spend money on Zumba classes, a fancy car, shopping for new cloths, and whatever else that I can find that supports the idea that people are spending money on their kick-ass dream lives.
Soon I could feel my energy shifting and I was back in the flow.
You know what?
It worked, the next conversation I had with someone resulted in them hiring me! There was no talk about lack of money. This person is an ideal client and the whole conversation was effortless.
Where are you feeling that you are not getting the results that you want and you have to really push to make things happen?
Try re-writing your story and see what happens! Share your results down below in the comments.
If you find yourself having a hard time with this process and are ready to stop pushing so hard for the results that you desire, send me an email by clicking here, and apply for a Breakthrough Session. During this 30 minute session I will help you identify where you are getting hung up and create a clear strategy for being free of it.